REEDVILLE—Judith F. “Judy” Cablk, beloved mother, grandmother, sister and friend, passed away peacefully on September 17, 2025, at the age of 86 in Reedville, surrounded by her loved ones.
She was the cherished wife of U.S. Navy Captain Steven Richard Cablk and the devoted daughter of U.S. Navy Captain John Southworth Fahy and Hariett McKee Fahy, who preceded her in death and welcomed her at the gates of heaven.
Born June 20, 1939, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, Judy graduated from Hood College in 1960 with a degree in mathematics. She went on to attend the U.S. Navy Officer Candidate School in Newport, Rhode Island, and was stationed at the Pentagon, where she worked on classified projects as a security programmer in the early 1960s. Her office was located in the outer ring—an area tragically destroyed in the terrorist attacks of 9/11.
It was during her time at the Pentagon that Judy met and married a young naval officer, Steven Richard Cablk. She honorably concluded her active duty service to accompany Steve as his career took them to various postings across the country. Embracing her role as a dedicated military spouse and nurturing mother, Judy raised three children, Mary Elizabeth Cablk, Steven Wilson Cablk and Emily Cablk Williams, with love, resilience and grace. As her children grew older, Judy returned to her academic roots by teaching mathematics at a private school, sharing her passion for learning with a new generation.
Judy is survived by her children and their families, Mary Elizabeth; Emily and her husband Chip Williams, and their children, Elle McKee, Harrison Cablk and Eva Marie; Wil and his wife Carole, and their sons, Nicholas Steven and Adam Lee. Judy adored her grandchildren, who spent countless joyful summers at “Gram’s” house, swimming in her pool, exploring Cockrell Creek and being welcomed with open arms alongside neighborhood friends, whether her own grandchildren were present or not.
She is also survived by her brother, retired U.S. Navy Captain Andrew Wilson Fahy, his wife Barbara, and their daughters, Suzanne and Sandra. As the family matriarch, Judy held close and cherished her relationships with every member of her extended family.
A passionate and adventurous traveler, Judy continued to explore the world after Steve’s passing in 2012, visiting Iceland, the Canadian Rockies and Europe. At home, she remained a lifelong learner, beekeeping, weaving baskets, taking knitting classes and rekindling her love of calligraphy. Her yard was a haven for wildlife, always filled with bird feeders and bat houses, reflecting her deep appreciation for nature—a love she passed on to her children.
Judy will be remembered for her radiant sense of humor, her boundless kindness and her gift for making everyone feel seen, valued and loved. Her motto, “Go for it!”, was a reflection of her spirit—bold, generous and full of life.
A service will be held at Arlington National Cemetery at a date to be announced. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to either of two organizations:
https://fairfieldsfire.com/ in Reedville, whose calm and compassionate service she deeply appreciated; or https://www.wreathsacrossamerica.org/Shop/Product/649?tid=0286927E-9459-4BEE-8C54-340F9FA0CAF3&vw=don, which honors veterans by placing wreaths on their graves each December.
“To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.” —Thomas Campbell
Judy will be deeply missed, but her love and legacy will remain with us always.
